Channeling love and sex properly

                                             

                               The law  of cause and effect is one of the very basic laws realised during the spiritual growth process. This law is realised somewhere along the second state of consciousness. For everything that happens in the world there is a valid reason or for every effect there is a sound cause. Therefore, the love you have for someone also has a reason or a cause. If there would have been no reason for love, why would be there a cause for hatred or why would you find stupid excuses for hating your own soulmate? Invalid, stupid and idiotic reasons for falling in love also generates the same consequences and is the sole reason why relationships are not permanent and lasting. Invalid, stupid and idiotic reasons for falling in love will last only as much as the reasons last. As you run out of the temporary reason or reservoir for falling in love, the days of your short fling will also come to a “ Last” or final seperation. This is how so-called relationships or short flings come to a tragic end. The secret of an enduring or a long-lasting relationship is the genuine cause of a cent percent “Soul Connection” with your future potential soulmate. I however, do not mean to imply that it is mandatory that you should be spiritually elevated to find the perfect flame of your life but I meant to hint at the burning importance of having a “Genuine cause or reason” for getting  attached and attracted to your future other-half. If you are soul-connected to your heart’s desire or have a genuine cause or reason for seeking to pursue a relationship with your potential soulmate then I bet you have found the masterkeys for a very happy and promising conjugal life. Just the other day, I was going through a famous Nepali women’s magazine and one of the stories of a so-called successful couple related that one of the reasons for the two deciding to tie the knot was because of both of their physically attractive plus the well built and prominently protruding bodies. “May this kind of a sorry story   be not one of your own or are you already contemplating getting your girlfriend laid before you catch the plane to the U.S. of A. ?” Let me give you an example of a genuine cause for  love. I had a friend by the name of Anmol Chettri who had gone to Oregon, U.S.A. for studies and in one of the gatherings over there had met an American lady who had been married to a Nepali porter from the mountainous region of Nepal. My friend was stupefied by the young lady's conjugal life with the Nepali porter and asked the lady the reason for marrying the poor man. The lady to the surprise of the oriental mind of my friend replied that she fell for the porter because she was in love with his smile! This is the kind of “Soul Connection” or the “Genuine motive” for  love that we are talking about here.

                             Sex and true-love are not inter-related. Sex is only a part of love and true-love is not in any manner the synonym of sex. There is no sexual attachment in true-love because sex is animal and pure-love, Divine. True-love is Anahatic and Transcendental which implies the pure-love that emanates from the core of the Anahat for someone’s soulmate is the most untainted form of affection in the entire Cosmos without the various relatives of the animal-instinct, sex, attached to it. Therefore, the most “Sacred” form of love that emanates from the heart of someone is that from the “Anahat” of a spiritually elevated being.  Let’s not talk about a so-called Enlightened being whose chakras were not awakened, let alone his senses dissolved, who found the silliest excuses to enjoy sexual escapades with Ma Sheela and the wife of Sri Chinmoy in his deluxe bedroom situated inside his infamous meditation resort with the cloak of betrayel because he had the habit of claiming that he was a cent percent celibate.  

                         “Physical Beauty” is only skin deep. It is because the reasons  for finding yourself a partner by evaluating   her physical proportions shall last only as much as your mistress retains her prominently protruding coca-cola figure or as long as the transient causes last. One of the criterias for finding the right  qualities in your other-half might be a synchronistic balance of beauty, brains and the heart. By beauty we normally should understand inner-beauty of a more enduring nature and the correct mind would mean someone endowed with a frame of intellect that has a genuine cause for  love. Genuine lovers naturally devote their entire life for the sake of their other-half and are very compatible with each other no  matter how rough the patches in their lives are. An equally good heart is one of the essentials of a stable relationship. The most stunning woman on the entire planet would be his other-half for a devotee of God while an atheist  normally has a habit of gawking at every passing woman with the corner of his eye while taking a stroll with his wife.  

                         I have been enjoying a very good friendship with two of my companions way back from school and have realised the secret behind any kind of stable and lasting relationships. The two requirements for any kind of relationship to succeed are namely,1) being open with your partner, and 2) never taking the other for granted. The goal of all conjugal life is for the two of you to live and prove to be the greatest allies and not like two opposite goal posts on a soccer field. Be a true confidant of your soulmate and share your deepest secrets, wildest fears and insecurities and your unimaginable dreams with your other-half.   The more open and genuine you are with each other the more close the bond grows on the basis of complete trust, because as the saying goes, “ The best proof of love is trust”. The moment you start being a closed book and phony with your partner is the time when the faith your soulmate had in you crumbles down. The moment the faith and trust your partner had in you breaks down is the time when your soulmate’s undying love for you starts failing. One of the greatest longings of human beings is “ To be liked and appreciated”! So when you give your partner the deserved respect and when your soulmate in return does not take you for granted, both of you have  a sense of  belonging and feel secure. Be equally attentive to your partner as much as your soulmate adores and respects you. Implementing these two steps into the relationship with your soulmate will produce a conjugal union of an enduring and everlasting nature. This is guaranteed.

                            “Adultery, Infidelity and divorcing your spouse is a sin”

                                                                                                    -Jesus Christ

                               Sex is a gift from God if utilized in the right manner and the worst form of perversion and a sin if misused. It is a means and tool to have pleasurable moments with only your soulmate and not an instrument to commit adultery and infedility. Adultery and infedility  are disapproved by God and is obscenity and also called “ Profane”. All pre, extra and post marital sex are against the code of conduct established by the most Supreme Godhead. Nobody is perfect and your soulmate shall definitely not have all the qualities of a perfectionist. Your soulmate is bound to have some flaws and negative qualities because it is a natural phenomenon  that everything in the Universe exists out of the co-existence of the opposites. Besides, even all the desires of an Enlightened being is not always fulfilled and most of us happen to be only ordinary mortals. When even an Enlightened being does not have all of his desires fulfilled you and most of the humans happen to be only ordinary materialistic beings. So all the desires and wants you may have about a suitable soulmate may not be fulfilled, so be fully prepared! Even Enlightened beings have to compromise because life for them is not always an Aladdin’s Jar  and it is even  more important for normal human beings to adopt a compromising life with their soulmates in some aspects because nobody is perfect, there shall be bound to be flaws with everybody, even with you and not all of one’s desires are fulfilled. So never opt for a divorce and learn to compromise on some things with your soulmate as life is not always a bed of roses.

                         Those who do not value virtues such as chastity don’t lead meaningful lives.  Those who don’t lead a meaningful life do not value life. Those who do not value life don’t prefer to take responsibilities and are very irresponsible. This is the root cause of polygamy. Those who don’t lead meaningful lives can only go far as being religious and not spiritual. The essence of life is not in being religious but in being spiritual. Religion and its doctrines do not offer profound insights on life and cannot navigate enduring solutions to human problems. Someone who is spiritual and has a storehouse of spiritual insights can efficiently guide his\her life even through the most troubled waters. Therefore, look at the various facets of your soulmate from a spiritual perspective. This is yet another secret for a very blissful conjugal union.

    "GOD WILL MAKE YOU FEEL PROUD THAT YOU MARRIED THE RIGHT PERSON"

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  ONE PARTICULAR NOVICE, A GOOD-FOR NOTHING JACKASS FROM THE NEPALESE MOVIE INDUSTRY GOT HIS PRIORITIES STRAIGHT TO ME A COUPLE OF NIGHTS AGO( THROUGH HIS FACEBOOK POST) AND WENT TO THE EXTENT OF CHALLENGING ME THAT HE AND HIS ENTIRE INDUSTRY COLLEAGUES WOULD GO TO THE STREETS, EVEN WOULD GO TO THE EXTENT OF TAKING UP VIOLENCE AGAINST ME( WHICH CLEARLY IMPLIED THAT THEY WOULD EVEN GO TO THE EXTENT OF TERMINATING MY LIFE) IF I TOOK UP ANY OFFENSIVE ACTION AGAINST THE NEPALESE MOVIE INDUSTRY. THEREFORE, TO TEACH THIS PARTICULAR ASSHOLE, THIS SON OF A GUN AND THIS SON OF A LIVING WHORE AN IMPARTING LESSON IN PURE HUMAN ETHICS AND TO FOREVER DRIVE HOME A PURELY ETHICAL MESSAGE TO HIM - " ANYONE WHO SCREENS MOVIES, VIDEOS IN THEATERS AND IN ANYTHING THAT CAN BE CALLED A SCREEN IN ANY PART OF THE GLOBE SHALL GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY." THIS REGULATION IS NOT APPLICABLE TO COMEDY, SPORTS, PATRIOTIC, MOTIVATIONAL,  ADVENTURE, RELIGIOUS, SPIRITUAL MOVIES AND VIDEOS ; MOVIES,  VIDEOS OF SIMILAR NATURE AND FIELD PLUS MOVIES, VIDEOS WHICH IMPART A MORAL, ETHICAL LESSON AND MESSAGE. ANY IMMORAL OR MOVIES, VIDEOS THAT IS CALLED NON- ETHICAL SHALL NOT BE ALLOWED TO BE SCREENED IN ANY PART OF THE GLOBE FROM NOW ON. HEALTHY MOVIES, VIDEOS AND MOVIES, VIDEOS WHICH INSPIRE, MOTIVATE AND BOOST A (HIGH)MORALE IN PEOPLE CAN BE AIRED AND SCREENED. ALL NO-SUBSTANCE MOVIES, VIDEOS SHALL NOT BE ALLOWED TO BE AIRED AND SCREENED ON THIS PLANET. ALL LOVE- THEME MOVIES, VIDEOS AND LOVE MOVIES, VIDEOS SHALL NOT BE ALLOWED TO BE AIRED AND SCREENED ON THIS PLANET. ALL ANTI-GOD AND ATHEISTIC MOVIES, VIDEOS SHALL NOT BE ALLOWED TO BE AIRED AND  SCREENED ON THIS PLANET. ANYONE WHO AIRS THE BANNED MOVIES, VIDEOS THROUGH AUDIO MEDIUMS SHALL GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY. ANYONE WHO BAN(S) THE STAR WAR(S) SERIES MOVIES SHALL GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY. ANYONE IN POSSESSION OF THE BANNED MOVIES, VIDEOS SHALL GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY. THESE REGULATIONS SHALL COME  INTO EFFECT AFTER JUNE 12, 2024. TO SUPPLEMENT AN IMPARTING, FINISHING  PUNISHMENT TO THIS PARTICULAR,  EXTREMELY HOT SISSY, GIG OF THE NEPALESE MOVIE INDUSTRY- " ANYBODY WHO AIRS AND SCREENS HEAVY ROCK, HEAVY METAL, PUNK ROCK,  PSYCHEDELIC ROCK, ALTERNATIVE ROCK, NO -SUBSTANCE, ANTI-GOD AND ATHEISTIC MUSIC AND SONGS,  ANY SONGS PLUS MUSIC THAT IS CALLED IMMORAL  AND SONGS, MUSIC OF A SIMILAR NATURE SHALL  GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY." THIS REGULATION IS NOT APPLICABLE TO SEMI-CLASSICAL, CLASSICAL, PATRIOTIC,  COUNTRY SONGS, FOLK SONGS, MOTIVATIONAL SONGS, LOVE SONGS, RELIGIOUS AND SPIRITUAL SONGS PLUS ANY SONGS, MUSIC WHICH IMPART A MORAL, ETHICAL MESSAGE AND LESSON. ANYONE IN POSSESSION OF THE BANNED MUSIC, SONGS SHALL GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY. ANYONE WHO AIRS AND SCREENS NO-SUBSTANCE , ANTI-GOD, ATHEISTIC T.V. SHOWS SHALL GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY. ( ANYONE IN POSSESSION OF THE BANNED T.V. SHOWS SHALL GO INSANE INSTANTANEOUSLY). THESE REGULATIONS SHALL COME INTO EFFECT AFTER JUNE 12, 2024.   (  DEVOTEES OF GOD AND THEISTS WHO ARE NOT AWARE OF POSSESSION OF THE BANNED MOVIES, VIDEOS, MUSIC, SONGS   AND T.V. SHOWS SHALL NOT GO INSANE. NO POWER IN THE COSMOS SHALL BE ABLE TO PREVENT THE VICTIMS FROM GOING INSANE THEIR LIVES.)